Lustful Feelings

An Example of Why We Need a Feelings Model An interesting illustration of how understanding emotions can be confusing without a model is the emotion of lust (i.e., “being horny”). Lust, as I will define it, is sexual arousal that we want to take immediate action on. Contemporary society seems extremely interested in feelings related … Read more

Navigating Anger and Jealousy

The relationship between anger and jealousy is often rooted in something deeper. When we experience anger, it can manifest as jealousy toward others. The source of our jealousy can be many things, from something unresolved in our past, feelings of inadequacy, or a fear we have, such as fear of loss or abandonment. Some people … Read more

Understanding and Overcoming Inadequacy

Have you ever felt inadequate or not enough? This could be in various aspects of life—whether in a job, relationship, or during quiet moments of introspection. These feelings can creep in during random moments, whether it’s a performance review at work, scrolling through social media, or even during quiet moments of reflection. It’s common to … Read more

The Importance of Appreciation

Feeling appreciated is an important aspect of our emotional and psychological well-being. It can uplift our spirits, help our relationships with others, and enhance our self-esteem. In a world where we often rush through our days, taking the time to recognize and express appreciation to others can profoundly impact our lives. Whether it’s a heartfelt … Read more